Steven Spielberg felt ‘helpless’ watching Drew Barrymore be ‘robbed’ of her childhood

Steven Spielberg felt ‘helpless’ watching Drew Barrymore be ‘robbed’ of her childhood

Steven Spielberg has been a father figure to Drew Barrymore since the filming of “E.T.”

But when Barrymore, now 48, asked him to be her real father when she was just 7 years old, he declined the offer.

Barrymore told Vulture that Spielberg, 76, is “the only person in my life to this day that ever was a parental figure.”

After Spielberg told a 7-year-old Barrymore that he couldn’t be her real father, he agreed to be her godfather. The Oscar-winning filmmaker recalled feeling “helpless” over her troubled life at home while they were filming the 1982 movie.

“She was staying up way past her bedtime, going to places she should have only been hearing about, and living a life at a very tender age that I think robbed her of her childhood,” he told Vulture. “Yet I felt very helpless because I wasn’t her dad. I could only kind of be a consigliere to her.”


Steven Spielberg, left, director of the 1982 film, 'E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial,' poses with actors Drew Barrymore, center, and Henry Thomas, who both starred in the film, at the premiere of the movie's 20th anniversary updated version Saturday, March 16, 2002
Steven Spielberg with Drew Barrymore and Henry Thomas, who both starred in “E.T. The Extra-Terrestrial,” at the premiere of the movie’s 20th anniversary updated version, March 16, 2002.AP

Barrymore’s actual father, the late actor John Drew Barrymore, was an abusive alcoholic.

“Talk about someone who was not a careerist,” Barrymore said of her father. “He was like, ‘I will burn this fucking dynasty to the ground.’”

The Barrymore acting “dynasty” moreso started with her grandfather, John Barrymore — who is thought of as one of the greatest Shakespearean actors of his time — along with his siblings Ethel and Lionel.


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Steven Spielberg even kept operators for E.T. on set during times when they weren’t filming so the alien could react to Drew Barrymore as she spoke to him.Bruce Mc Broom/Universal/Kobal/Shutterstock
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Drew would have lunch with E.T. and “tell him her secrets.”Jam Press

During the making of “E.T.,” Spielberg wanted to make sure the magic was kept alive for a young Barrymore since she thought the extraterrestrial was real, shooting the movie in strict continuity to not crush her. She once spotted people operating the puppet behind a wall and asked Spielberg to make them leave the set.

“I didn’t want to burst the bubble,” Spielberg shared. “So I simply said, ‘It’s okay, E.T. is so special E.T. has eight assistants. I am the director, I only have one.”


Drew Barrymore talks about preserving cord blood in the umbilical cord of her children on an episode of her show
Drew Barrymore told Vulture that Spielberg is “the only person in my life to this day that ever was a parental figure.”The Drew Barrymore Show
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Steven Spielberg told a 7-year-old Drew Barrymore that he couldn’t be her real father, but he agreed to be her godfather.Jemal Countess/Getty Images for TIME

Spielberg even kept operators for E.T. on set during times when they weren’t filming so the alien could react to Barrymore as she spoke to him. She would have lunch with E.T. and “tell him her secrets,” Vulture reported.

The outlet also reported that the young actress would stay with the Spielberg family “on weekends; he gave her a cat she named Gertie and took her to Disneyland and Knott’s Berry Farm.”